This post is long overdue . I want to say life happens, but I guess that’s not news? I have wanted to share the updates to my home as they happen but June has been a rather busy month on my end. I celebrated my anniversary…my 3rd anniversary which was amazing and we should definitely talk about in another post.
Every once in a while i go on a break. sometimes a voluntary ne and most times an involuntary one because other things take precedence or my body just gives up on me. This month ended up being like that. I had a little trip to the city, and the exhaustion that has followed and sheer nonchalance in life in general has been quite a bit
(this post was written in 2021… You will notice that a lot has changed since)
Inala, exala… That’s what I have been telling myself this whole time since we made a move to continue putting our house together. Ok lets take a few steps back. The year was 2020 and it was the literal turn of the decade and we had just put blood, sweat and a whole lot of money to try make the house we were moving into to be somewhat habitable…because bruh!
Last week we got down with the laundry and bits of settling in. I even got some work done. It was a pretty fruitful week and I even got some work done which was amazing. Today’s update is pretty short and sweet actually.
Its the end of the week, it was better than the first week. I managed to sit on the work desk for a bit, it almost feels like I am figuring my way around here now. I feel relieved, a lot less anxious and things are beginning to look like they are coming together. We are far from completion, but we are slowly adapting to our space.
This year was supposed to be the year that my birthday was going to be lit lit. I had all these fantastic plans on how everything was going to be fantastic and for the first time since I was 21 years old, I was going to make a big deal of my birthday, but then we had to urgently” move house, and that kind of changed the whole course of .
I’m back to my weird writing times, today it’s just before I go to shower. It’s my first shower in the past 2 days because life and extremely depressive moods. The kind of spoon that life has fed me off of the past two days, has me shaking my head every two minutes. I have literally gone through all my emotions.
I had a bug to write a blog post yesterday. My process of writing is usually very strange because I always start with a prompt rather than a title, and yesterday the prompt came to me. But as with every adult interaction, life just crept on me.
I was about to type happy new year then I remembered this post where they said the deadline for happy new year was 5th. So technically I am two days too late. (at the time of starting to write this) I genuinely hope your year started on a positive note. Mine was definitely fantastic. I got my Christmas that I so badly wanted to have with B.