A little catch up

I am currently holding my head in my palms in shame…. I haven’t shown up here sufficiently in Quarter 1 and I noticed this because the writing prompts page on my journal is blank. So I am trotting back here in shame and I need to say I am sorry. Work-life balance is n actual scam and i am here to report that I definitely cannot keep up.

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Things quarantine taught me

This will probably go up when I am on the road, I will probably be asleep or reading a book seeing that it’s going to take 6hours to finally arrive. You see ever since March when the curfew was announced which drastically cut short a little birthday get away that B and I wanted to have…

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Hello September + free printable

I have been super overwhelmed this week trying to juggle deadline after deadline and a little unexpected move so its been rough on this end. That, and also the fact that Ms Flo showed up with her cousins (bloating and cramps ) which is  definitely a story or another day. Read More

A marriage like mine

Just woke up. I have for the last week tried to wake up before 0600hours which has had me wake up between 0445hrs and 0600hrs which is impressive. I’m having a cup of tea while catching up on updating the vlog. Have you noticed site changes? Now you can support my work by donating while I also work on a few exciting projects that I can’t wait to bring to you. Funny enough I am still excited about this year… the discomfort has really pushed me. It’s difficult though make no mistake.

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August Bullet journal spread (free printable)

I woke up tired today, I actually almost forgot that I had to put this up. Its been a hectic night. I woke up with a start st 0300hrs partly because B had to go to hospital and check up on a patient and also because I woke up with a cramp…which promptly announced my time of the month. Read More

Musings on girlfriends

Every time I see girlfriends meet up or do a bunch of things as I scroll through my Instagram feed, i experience a ka-feeling. I don’t know how to describe this feeling except to say that its a combination of awe with a bit of jealousy. Awe because well, the aspect of frienship fills my heart with so much joy and warmth. As a person who has experienced deep friendship, the way these relationships strengthen you and empower you can definitely not be paralleled. Jealousy because, how are y’all just a group of friends? This part has not been a reality for me…At lest not as far as girlfriends are concerned. Read More

A few bullet journal purchases

I think that I have hinted on my creative slump more than once on here…. I have been struggling with creating for a while now and i am just getting back into the swing of things. Read More

Cuddles and shoulders…Difficult days

The story of how I met or rather started being close with my best friend is actually interesting. If you really want the full scoop check out our blog. ( haha we used to blog). I think about it and can’t help but notice how we unknowingly had the same kind of interests and circumstances. If I was superstitious I would definitely say that we were meant to be… But I am not…also our path just showed me that it wasn’t predestined but rather effort and intention. (That is definitely a story for another day) I digress. Read More