I messed up and I’m stuck

I knew about our little trip a month before it was supposed to take place. But somewhere along the grand time-line, circumstances changed and so it was going to happen sooner. Or so I thought, but then again a minor detail in the plan wasn’t confirmed then the plans were in limbo for a while.

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A marriage like mine

Just woke up. I have for the last week tried to wake up before 0600hours which has had me wake up between 0445hrs and 0600hrs which is impressive. I’m having a cup of tea while catching up on updating the vlog. Have you noticed site changes? Now you can support my work by donating while I also work on a few exciting projects that I can’t wait to bring to you. Funny enough I am still excited about this year… the discomfort has really pushed me. It’s difficult though make no mistake.

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Musings on girlfriends

Every time I see girlfriends meet up or do a bunch of things as I scroll through my Instagram feed, i experience a ka-feeling. I don’t know how to describe this feeling except to say that its a combination of awe with a bit of jealousy. Awe because well, the aspect of frienship fills my heart with so much joy and warmth. As a person who has experienced deep friendship, the way these relationships strengthen you and empower you can definitely not be paralleled. Jealousy because, how are y’all just a group of friends? This part has not been a reality for me…At lest not as far as girlfriends are concerned. Read More

A few bullet journal purchases

I think that I have hinted on my creative slump more than once on here…. I have been struggling with creating for a while now and i am just getting back into the swing of things. Read More

Cuddles and shoulders…Difficult days

The story of how I met or rather started being close with my best friend is actually interesting. If you really want the full scoop check out our blog. ( haha we used to blog). I think about it and can’t help but notice how we unknowingly had the same kind of interests and circumstances. If I was superstitious I would definitely say that we were meant to be… But I am not…also our path just showed me that it wasn’t predestined but rather effort and intention. (That is definitely a story for another day) I digress. Read More

Crippling fear of beginnings

I’m sure that you are here because you read last week’s post and you are hoping to have a glimpse into how I deal with anxiety and my gripping fear of beginnings. Remember how I said that adulting was a scam? Here is lesson 101 of adulting… Read More

June’s unboxing + Updates

In June,I took a break from creating to chill and create in other ways away from social media.This was a much needed break from posting twice a week for almost two months (rather since quarantine began) and I was mentally exhausted and needed to take a breather. Of course life was still going on and I picked a camera a couple of times to catch some of those moments.

Which is what I want to share today in this quick post.

Also did you catch this New Friday series? I will be sharing my adulting experinces every Friday this month. So be sure to catch that here on the blog.

Xx

Nyake.

Discovering Online shopping

I am seated here waiting for my mask to dry as i type this. My skin has been doing well actually. if you hang out with me regularly I assume you know that the term well is relative and applies to my skin as such. For more skin care stories read this post. I realize we haven’t told any quarantine story on here this month. Read More